Monthly Archives: November 2005

I Have A Theory

Yes, I know I’ve been wrong with theories before (okay, so I was wrong about the healing powers of gibbon spit. Wipe your face and get over it) but this time I feel I’m on to something. My theory is that as the holiday season gets closer to its crescendo people get closer to freezer temperature IQ’s.

It’s as if turkey has some magical ingredient that covers otherwise rational people in a coating of Dumbasstic! (patent pending). I’m not even talking about the random gas machines that inflict a haze on my everyday. I’m talking people I’d have a conversation with and not once (not even behind their backs) have to fight the urge to solder their teeth together to stop them from babbling.

And here are my first two examples of this degradation into another Dumbasstic! holiday season.

A group of three or four people were chatting and it was a normal, adult conversation. Exchanging pleasantries and general chit-chat that I find so enlightening. As you know, by enlightening I mean nap inducing. Which is why I don’t mind it. Naps is good.

But then something went wrong. I can’t really put my finger on it. One second we’re talking about buying a loved one a long coveted gift and the next this group of fully employed and outwardly functional adults began discussing what superpower they’d love to have.

Next stop, Lithiumland. It’s double dose day!

I’m watching these people have, what would look like to anyone outside earshot, the kind of adult conversation you used to imagine adults having when you were a kid. But no.

And it leads me to wonder if that’s why we’re as screwed up as we are. Here we were as kids thinking our parents and their friends were solving the world’s problems but, in reality, they were moments from a fist fight because your father and the next door neighbor both wanted to be Big Dick Man!

I’m watching these people get into this conversation and, as was inevitable, someone asked me what superpower I’d like. I begged off saying I hadn’t given it much thought since I was six and wouldn’t want to rush into it.

I mean, what if I said I wanted to be Shit Diamonds Man without thinking it through? Sure, it sounds like a good superpower but I’m pretty sure it would sting like a bitch.

But they keep pushing. As a matter of fact, they begin to come up with superpowers for me. I smile and keep trying to sway this gelatinous mass into different, and hopefully more distant, directions. But they’re on a mission and you know how it is with superheroes. They keep battling until justice is done, wrongs righted, my wits at it’s last fraying end.

“Yeah, I think I know what superpower I’d like.” I look at this collection of smiling dimbles (yeah, I had to make up my own word. I just couldn’t think of one that captured the spirit of the thing) and say, “It would be to make you people stop talking to me.”

Hey! Whodathunk it! Turns out I already have that superpower!

My next example of the petrifaction in the mental state of humans during the jungle, jangle of the holiday season (scholarly ring there, don’t ya think?) has to do with this fully bundled woman. She’s got so much fur showing I thought I was watching a 70’s era porno.

As she’s unbundling herself on this first cold snap of what will be (if history is any indication) eighteen straight months of unbridled cold, she rubs each appendage she unearths. It’s as if her superpower would be Arms of Wood Lady just to warm herself up. After a few moments her vocal chords thaw and she begins to speak.

“Boy, it’s scary cold out there.”

Scary cold? I don’t know about you but I’ve never walked outside and screamed because Jack Frost was nipping at my nose with a hedge trimmer. If that did happen, okay, that would be scary. I’d even give you if it was freezing on the 4th of July. Yeah, that could be a little scary because something sure is going wrong cosmically.

But because it’s cold. In November. In New England. And the news was filled with ‘Hey, bundle up it’s gonna be a cold one!’ reports I don’t think I can give you scary.

If the cold frightened you after all the previous information maybe you should go home, grab a steaming hot cup of cocoa and throw it in your face. I’m sure the cold will scare you less after that psychotic episode.

“Scary cold?” I question the woman as she unsheathes her fingers. “That’s not scary cold. Scary cold is when water from a public toilet splashes up your ass.”

By her reaction I could see that my superpower was still fully functioning.

How was my morning?

I’m so glad you asked! It was a normal morning with one small difference. I was told I had to move three boulders. I’ve moved so many boulders/rocks/lawn mowers (yes, lawn mower. You see, for years the deep backyard was a dumping area for the neighborhood because the people who lived there before the people we purchased it from never went back there and didn’t care. The people we bought it from cared enough to put a lush lawn over all of this crap. Needless to say, we’ve been yanking out crap for a year and a half now.

When we first moved in I was down back while Terry wandered around the front. Suddenly I see what was going to be my future in front of me. Of course, I didn’t know it was my future at the time but that’s how future is. That tricky bastard.

At first I thought it was one of those tall ashtrays you used to see in movie theaters and hospitals. So I trudged over to it and gave it a yank. Yeah, I expected it to dislodge and I’d have a humorous story to tell all.

I, as you’ve come to know, am an idiot.

I thought my shoulder was going to rip from the socket it’s so fond of after all these years. I lean down and take a look at it. Nope, it wasn’t an ashtray. It was the right fender of an automobile. A 1950’s era automobile. Figuring it was just a piece of a 1950’s vintage automobile I leaned in and gave it a bigger yank.

Please see the paragraph above the last.

It didn’t budge. I brushed dirt away and kept giving it yanks. Nothing. This was going to have to be dug out before it could be determined just how much of the 1950’s era automobile was taking a dirt nap. So, I dust myself off and go tell Terry we have at least portions of a 1950’s vintage automobile buried in our backyard.

“What?” Was her first and expected reaction. “Maybe Jimmy Hoffa is buried there.” Was her second and, pretty much from my experience in telling this story, expected reaction. We didn’t do anything about it for a long time because there were other things to take care of. As you’d expect, when people basically bequeath a major section of their property to the wild the wild is just kind enough to accept it.

For the next year we pruned and moved and filled the back until it was no only passable but looking pretty nice. Terry would spend hours back there yanking thorns, tilling the earth, planting new growth. I would spend time moving dirt from one area to another, moving boulders from one area to another, sitting on so many thorns I haven’t sat down comfortable since last summer.

But the 1950’s era automobile was always the thorn we couldn’t get out of our ass. Friends graciously offered to assist in removing it while many more offered to stop by to watch us remove it in the hopes that someone (most likely me) had some kind of horrible accident during the removal of the vehicle and the interment of myself.

Terry spent a big chunk of yesterday moving and clearing and cleaning the area. Yes, we are going to fill in the back to make it even more usable but we don’t want it filled with anything except dirt. Nice, healthy, dirt (ya listening, Walt? Walt’s our dirty, I mean, dirt guy). No fill from other construction, no tools, and definitely no 1950’s vintage automobile.

She made a path so that in the event that the event takes place, we can safely haul the 1950’s era automobile from it’s spot without shredding the lawn. A perfect plan, if you ask me. But, there were a few little problems. Boulders. Big ones that Terry couldn’t move by herself. So this morning I went down back. I see two pretty close to each other that are large but I’ve moved their cousins before so they won’t be a problem.

But then there’s one leaning on the 1950’s vintage automobile. This one weighs as much as a 1950’s era automobile filled with shiny faced, happy 1950’s styling kids on the way to the malt shop. I assess the situation and know that if we are to get closer to solving the case of mysteriously buried 1950’s era automobile it will have to be moved.

But it sure looked like it wasn’t going to be moved much by me alone. I moved a small section of it (okay, I got it to move more or less due to its own weight and balance but, damnit, I get so victories these days I’m taking) but most of its girth was still making it impossible to further unearth the 1950’s vintage automobile.

I tried the old fulcrum bit and did dislodge it but not make much headway. Then Terry came down and together we pushed it away from the 1950’s era automobile enough to be rolled a couple of feet away.

“But I want it over there.” Terry says pointing ten feet away.

“But right now it’s staying there.” I say knowing it can be done but not with the amount of time

I have before I have to leave for work and Terry has to take Hilary to school. I’m also going to need a large fulcrum so while I’m thinking about what I have at work Terry is digging around the 1950’s vintage automobile.

Because the boulder isn’t in the way anymore it’s easier to figure out that this probably isn’t a full 1950’s era automobile. The shovel is hitting dirt where it should be hitting hood so I’m a little calmer about this. The thought of me and Fred and Davy yanking a 1950’s vintageautomobile up this hill under the watchful eyes of people with video cameras just hoping for a human tragedy never sounded all that appealing to me.

Fun, but because I’d probably end up the tragedy, not all that appealing.

Terry leaves to bring Hilary to a location of higher learning while I continue digging around the 1950’s era automobile. I find the end of the bumper; I find the side of the bumper; I keep digging. I lean in and start yanking. Dirt falls. My feet slip. I can feel the 1950’s vintage automobile part move for the first time since it was junked in what is now our backyard.

With a little more dirt moving and a lot more yanking the bumper slips free. I hold it up for a moment before tossing it behind me. I inspect the spot and see dirt. I’m happy because even when you’re a close personal friend of the dirt guy for almost twenty years, that shit’s expensive.

Well, I’d tell you more about the celebration we had; the joy we felt; the exhilaration of beating this thorn in our sides, but I have to go to work now.

Oh, and for you people disappointed because I didn’t hurt myself. Ha! You’ll just have to wait. But, trust me, it won’t be long. I still have to move that boulder that’s still sitting in the path. Yeah, even I’d fire up the old video camera for that one.


I have many conversation in my day of filled with morons, psychopaths and mental defectives. I don’t even want to talk to you about the people I have to deal with at work. That’s scary. But, because I have to write 800 words, I will.

At work there are all kinds of conversations. Inane, combative, funny, idiotic, boring, threatening, and sometimes diet altering. An example of an idiotic conversation I had was with this mouth-breathing, sloth-moving, fuckwad. He loaded a cart until it was about 8 feet high and then when he moved it about 4 feet of it toppled.

That, in and of itself, wouldn’t be that stupid. Sadly, it happens too often to even register on the meter. It turned idiotic because he’d place half a dozen florescent tubes among the things on top of the cart. Oh sure, it’s quite a explosion of fun. Unless you’re the guy who has to clean it up.

While I’m cleaning it up the guy is laughing. He’s picking up the not shattered crap and he says, “I fuck up but I can always laugh at myself.”

I dump the first dustpan on glass shards into the barrel and answer, “Too bad you give yourself so many opportunities.”

An example of a funny one was when this older gentleman with eight hundred dollars in change in one pocket and two hundred and forty seven keys from houses he hasn’t lived in for fifty years and padlocks he lost seventy years ago in the other was telling me a story. He considered himself quite the raconteur. I considered him harmless because, unlike so many others, his stories ended. At the three quarter mark of this story he sucks in his rather large gut with a deep, full breath and corkscrews his pants up to his tits. He didn’t want to. It’s the law!

The funny part came when he released his pants without the necessary component of releasing his girth to catch his sixty-eight pounds of pants. They fell to the ground and I was surprised spindly legs like those could keep him upright. While I’m thinking that he’s struggling to bend over to pull up his pants. I think they were too heavy for him while standing so it was a difficult struggle.

I’m laughing because, well, I’m only human. He’s flustered with a face as red as the devil’s asshole on six-alarm chili night. I stand there waiting for the completion of his story but he was in no blood pressure range to allow anything else out of his body.

And then there’s the dietary changing stories.

A guy comes in to pay and I’m doing the customer service, ‘How ya doin’?’ thing. I do it to give them something to do while I’m completing the transaction. I find if you don’t give them something to do they’ll end up asking something. It’s best to push them into their own orbit until I can shove them out the door. It works more times than not.

Today, sadly, was one of those nots.

The guy who, up to this moment, the most I’d known about his physical being was that he hand limbs and a head. Truly, this is all I want to know about most people. But this guy had a story and he was going to tell me. So I leaned back and listen to a shitty tale.

Not that it was a bad story, it was just about shit. Or lack thereof.

He tells me that he’s so impacted that the doctor is going to travel up the poop shoot down the Hershey highway until they reach sphincterville where they’ll pick up a package of colon blow. Why, thank you, stranger, I’ll ask my loved ones if we can put that on our vacation itinerary.

I was hoping the story winding was down (truly, how much further could it go?) so I wish him bon voyage on his crappy trip. It wasn’t. He had more packed in there just dying to get out of him. I didn’t mind hearing it because, unless there was a breakthrough right there, it was in the abstract for me. And then he uttered a phrase that will stick with me for quite some beers.

“It sucks. When I do shit it’s the size of peas. And not even those big peas.”

Only some of you know why that is such a distressing phrase for me. I love those little green spheroids. Well, used to. I’m not sure how I really feel about them right now. I’m going to have to regroup and hope that the next batch of peas served to me is delicious.

Why couldn’t he have said brussels sprouts or radishes? Why? Did he have to ruin peas for me?

An adult. . .

 . .fully grown, seemingly with faculties intact, just came in all atwitter due to the fact that they were going to a Halloween party tonight. The reason for their excitement was due to their costume. They loved their costume. Was consumed with their costume. I, on the other hand, was consumed with murderous intent.

As we neared what I hoped was the end of this burst of cancer causing sun she asked if I was going to any Halloween parties. I said that, in fact, I was going to one thrown by the producers of a movie review show I direct. We’re going to watch ‘Devil’s Rejects’ and drink ourselves senseless while tossing bags filled with
shit at any kids who dare ring the doorbell.

She didn’t take my faiths celebration of the holiday as seriously as I. But, being a believer, she kept moving forward because she had to know what I was going to dress up as.

“A less disgruntled version of me.” I answered. “I’m going for a softer, gentler Zell this season.”

She wouldn’t take that and had to know what I was going to dress up as. When I explained that the last time I dressed up for Halloween was when I could still jerk off with forefinger and thumb, she said that was unacceptable.

“It’s part of the holiday. You have to dress up!” She’s looking at me like the true believer she is. I’m looking at her like the true loon she is. “So, come on, you have to dress up!”

I stand there for a moment as she grins her snickers bar smile at me. I look back at her with the razor filled apple of my eye and say,

“Okay, I’m going to dress up.” She perks up. “I’m going as Lance Armstrong’s missing testicle.”

She got all unseasonal and stormed out of the building.

Well, bullocks to her.

The non-cancerous one.




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The Tale of the Tiniest Room

I don’t know why it happens. Just because I deal with people every day they seem to have this uncanny knack of talking to me. Now, I ‘m not conceited enough to think they’ve arrived here from some nincompoop nebula just to talk to me. I’m sure any unwitting drone carving out a meager living smiling at stumps with eyes would have sufficed but I don’t care about them. I am conceited enough to just care about me.

This woman starts a monologue the moment she enters. The thing that first attracted my attention was her topic. It had nothing to do with the goods or services I so unhappily provide. She was talking about her bathroom and it’s recent redesign.

Now, trust me, I’m old enough and have been in enough relationships to have been there during conversations about bathroom design many times. The problem is if it doesn’t directly involve the three things that have to do with my dick (to recap 1) Put the seat up. 2) Put the seat down. 3) Get the piss IN the toilet.) I’ve never heard a thing.

Sorry. But I don’t care if the towel matches the decorative, scented soap in a bowl. Why? Because I’ve learned, through years of trial and error, I can’t touch them. I don’t care about a gators cloaca for much the same reason. Can’t touch this.

For a portion of my life, when I was living (as I’ve been informed time and time again) like a heathen, my towels came from gyms, tennis clubs and hotels. And, you know what? They worked! I’d be wet, grab one, soon, I’d be dry. Success!

Why the stress about matching? If used properly they’re going to get stains on them you don’t want your guests to see. And you know what was great about my towels? When I ruined one, whether I used it enough to see through or had to wrap a murder weapon in, nothing calamitous would happen. I’d just go workout and get a new one!

You can’t tell me that’s not healthier for you than, as this woman did, walking around an aisle for ninety minutes holding a soap pump so you can match a specific purple or, more specifically, to quote the woman, ‘mauveberry.’

What happened to blue? Red? Hell, I’ll even give you a periwinkle. I think you women, oh yeah, I’ve got your attention now, are just making this shit up. You call us stupid but you don’t keep us appraised of the new rulings. Not that we’d follow them (we’re too busy figuring out the infield fly rule) but it would be nice, for once, not to be shocked with words like mauveberry. That really makes a guys head fall into neutral. We’re trying to listen but we’re out of gear and spinning our wheels. And it’s all your fault because the only thing rattling in our heads is,

“Mamamauveberry? Mmmmmmauvebeeeeerryyyyy? Mauvvvvveberrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry? When did that get invented and who did it? It sure as hell wasn’t a guy who goes to the gym.”

So while my heads revving in neutral this woman is continually talking about her bathroom. Under threat of perjury (the comedy courts are extremely strict about this) I will state that she talked about this for over eight minutes. Eight minutes. I talked to a doctor operating on my hand for less time. I was just glad she didn’t redecorate her bedroom. If she spent eight minutes talking about the smallest room of her house I could only imagine the mini-series she’d make of luxurious organic linens.

Just when I was wishing I had one of my old towels to stuff in her mouth because it would not only shut her up but, due to the nature of the beast, would probably kill her with all the germs residing there, she began a new phrase.

“Bathroom coordinates.”

“Bababathroom coordinates. Bathroooooooommmmmmm coordinates. Bathroom cooorrrrdinnnnnnates.”

I finally couldn’t take it anymore, I had to speak up. I had to take a stand for my fellow man. I had to wave the filthy towel of fungus and get an answer.

“Bathroom coordinates?”

The woman looks at me and smiles as if, finally, there’s a man in the world who gets it (note to women: there isn’t).

“Do people need GPS to take a piss in your house?”

Her expression quickly changed to that of, ‘MEN!’ while she gathered herself and exasperatedly exited the building.

I must admit that, while watching her leave, I found that I’d learned something from her visit.

I’ve got to come up with snappy lines that piss people off sooner in most conversations.

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